Monday, 25 February 2019

Why I am NOT my characters and my own slice of darkness


Readers of my stories often compare me with my characters. Many of them actually insist that the main protagonist of Dragons Attendants, Victoria, is me, shoved into the story. I will have to thank these people for the compliment and humbly disagree with them. My protagonists are nowhere near me, but I do wish I was like them. Their determination, strength, morals, wit, are things I wish I could perfect in my own self. Zero, Victoria and Alduin are the main characters that I try to perfect in the way I believe they should be in the story. By perfect, I don’t mean that they are perfect human beings, since in many occasions they make mistakes and are not inherently bad or good (much like any person), but that they are the way I want a protagonist to be in a fantasy story. That being said, I am not my characters.
As a person, I like to bring myself down constantly, in fear of others bringing me down on their own. That way, when I am faced with a failure in life, I am already standing at the bottom of the pit and there is no need for me to fall down. I love learning, I love getting better, but constantly remind myself that I am not good enough, that I should do more and more and more, till all my time is ‘’used meaningfully’’. When someone praises me, I feel discomfort, I fear that I will fail them the next second, that I have to seem ‘’perfect’’ in their eyes from now on. Even though the stress of becoming better gnaws on my brain day in, day out, procrastination, and low self-esteem bring me down and hold be back and I can count many things I wanted to see from myself, but fail in making them happen. It is very common for the most of us and it is my own personal piece of darkness.
I wish I was my characters. I wish I had the power, the determination to move forward and make the best of any situation, not dwelling in my mistakes. I am NOT my characters, but I sure wish I could be.
C.T.K.

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